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The Law of Repulsion

Topic: Self-care
Archetype(s):
#1 Waiting for Godot, #4 Sliding Doors, #7 The Devil Wears Prada, #10 Lost in Translation, #13 Run Lola Run, #16 American Beauty, #19 Groundhog Day, #22 The Prestige, #25 The Aviator
Experience of life:
Healthy boundaries creating conflict with self and others

I’m learning to embrace the Law of Repulsion.

An under-appreciated sibling of the Law of Attraction, perhaps the Cinderella of the universal laws, the Law of Repulsion is always working hard in the background. We just don’t like looking at it because it’s not quite as easy on the eye, and it often comes with sadness because it requires us to let go. According to this law, we repel what’s not meant for us.

Much fuss is made about the Law of Attraction. “Raise your vibration to where what you want exists.” I’m guilty of repeating this narrative. But what are we holding on to that our vibration is desperately trying to repel? What no longer serves us and wants to be released?

As humans constantly evolving and nowhere close to being evolved, there are going to be triggers. There is going to be hurt. There is going to be letting go.

If we were to just be. Not trying to attract. Not trying to hold on. If we just allowed this duo to do their thing and settle into their own rhythm… what naturally gravitates into our lives and what naturally gravitates out?

Are we courageous enough to accept the loss with mercy and grace?

 

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Allison Wentworth Ross

I'm Allison Wentworth Ross, a writer, geek, and marketing innovator from Cape Town, South Africa. While being many things to many people, in business I am deeply passionate about making marketing communication meaningful and fun. I am also the founder of Finding Violet and the Vibrational Marketing Institute.
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Louise

I’d never heard of this Law but it makes total sense. Many of the people I work with hold on to baggage from the corporate world, I know I still do! Time to let go.

amor

Yes new adventures and beautiful new friendships and connections come when one door closes or when we let go or detach.

Sue Daly

The saying ‘Old habits die hard’ comes to mind. The routines and practices we have used almost mindlessly (we cannot possibly be mindful of every single thing we do in a day) have become embedded in our being. People and relationships are entwined in our lives. And the hardest of all to let go are beliefs. They are the safe place we can go to when all else fails, and without them we feel on very shaky ground. That’s when we most need people we can rely on to hold us and keep us safe until new beliefs have formed and those new opportunities, connections and adventures Amor mentions can show up.

Sarah

Thank you for sharing Allison, what an interesting law to consider. This law also holds a vibration of aligning us with our highest good. It allows what needs to be cleared out to create space for what is more aligned. It in part is learning to see what needs to be released so that what wants to show up can be received.