Why do I do what I do and what do I love to do? I love defining moments witnessing this in others and experiencing it myself. I enjoy creating tools that inspire and evoke emotion, and diving into experiences to uncover valuable insights. I love a good story and revel in movies that are masterfully crafted with theatrics and effects, leaving my heart stirred and moved.
As I reflect on my journey, I see how it all connects. From the time I was a little girl, I often found myself surrounded by dominating personalities—adults, people with strong reputations, or those society deemed flawless. In primary school, I remember an older boy, pulling up his sleeves and mimicking karate moves, eager to prove his strength and threatening to fight little me.
Over the years, I watched others fiercely racing to build their empires and achieve their dreams, and showcase their power with dominance and force, frequently at the expense of others. I found myself helping others build their empires rather than creating my own realm. As I ran with them, I began to tire and stumble, eventually realizing it was time for me to reshape my own narrative and start building my dreams.
Little did I realize the impact of those years spent trying to prove my worth and seeking validation and acceptance and masking my authentic voice. I was unaware at the time that others’ opinions held so much weight for me that I allowed it to shape my own narrative of not being enough feeling small and unworthy, always sensing the vast gap between where I was and where they were with their achievements and empires.
I learned to navigate and be agreeable to influential voices, but deep down, I longed for a life that was truly mine—not defined by challenges, obligatory roles, or the louder voices of others and external rhythms. There was something far greater than abandoning a deep part of who I was. It was my higher quest, one that was mine to craft and walk—not in a race, but at my own pace.
A page in my book reads:” This is my story, and this is how I want it to unfold. To stand tall and be incredibly proud, embracing the story I have actively shaped, and celebrating the fullness of all that I am—right here, right now , with love and grace.”
What do I do beyond the tools programs adventures I love to create? In a world where others often try to define us, I encourage individuals to remember the unique brilliance they already are—whole, complete, and inherently radiant. No polishing, refining, fixing, or redefining is needed. As each person embraces and celebrates their authentic self and live their life story while honoring their higher quest, this collective effort creates a ripple effect that fosters sustainability, clean air, and positive impact for future generations.
In this magical quantum reality, dominating egos and fearful distractions—that which seek to disrupt the beauty and impact of this ripple effect—are overpowered by the brilliance of each individual’s and the collective’s unique light and magic.
There is so much beauty in this post, Amor. So much to reflect on.
From the way we allow other’s to shape what we think of ourselves, to breaking free from the power of their opinions. I love how you now actively help teens remember who they truly are so they can stand tall in their own essence early in their lives.
It often takes others to tell us what we are good at, and how we shine, but typically the world usually only tells us if we are not doing something well (or how they would like us to do it). Whenever you appear on screen Amor, your beautiful smile and inner sparkle shine through. You are a wonderful example of digging deep and allowing your unique light and magic to swell the collective.
I think we all spend too much of our lives trying to shake off the deep rooted influences of our childhood. Influences who told us who we should be, what we should aspire to do, our faults and all the areas we needed to improve which is why the work you do with teens is fantastic. Supporting them to realise their own brilliance and the wonder of the world around them, we all need a bit more magic in our lives!