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Walk your path without Comparisonitis

Topic: My response, Self-responsibility and why it’s important in business
Archetype(s):
#1 The Seeker, #2 The Would-be Lover, #3 The Peace Finder, #4 The See-Saw, #5 The Believer, #6 The Faith Warrior, #7 The Hustler, #8 The Re-Kindler, #9 The Restorer, #10 The Yo-Yo, #11 The Self-Improver, #12 The Dedicator, #13 The Hope Warrior, #14 The Peace Advocate, #15 The Presence Explorer, #16 The Perfectionist, #17 The Self-Saboteur, #18 The Up-Leveller, #19 The Fidgeter, #20 The Releaser, #21 The Brave Heart, #22 The Doubter, #23 The Self-Carer, #24 The Staller, #25 The Inspired, #26 The Free Thinker, #27 The Alchemist
Experience of life:
Feeling inadequate in any area of life occurs when we compare ourselves to others. The key is to understand that we are unique, and therefore, it is futile to compare ourselves. We are responsible for walking our path while standing fully in our truth. Only then can we meet and match those who are of like frequency and whom we align with.

In response to Allison’s post on vibrational alignment in collaboration:

I had a disease through my own experience of years of feeling inadequate and therefore acutely lacking in many areas. It was called Comparisonitis.

This disease stayed with me until I truly understood that I am unique – not in a special or grandiose way. Just being alive made me unique. So why the heck was I comparing myself to everyone else and feeling like I am the only one that does not have life sorted?

So here I was, a solo entrepreneur trying to muddle my way through so that I could somehow make ends meet before they moved further apart. To no avail. I tried to co-create numerous times with others and ended up alone again. So these points from Allison’s post resonated deeply.

The usual process…

  • One or two entrepreneurs plant the seeds. They see the vision, even if it’s still blurry.
  • They passionately invite others to join.
  • And so begins the honeymoon before the marriage.

The only problem is, we never got to the marriage.

I realised that the only way I can get ahead is to focus on my path. When I am doing this, integrity to myself and the commitments I make increase my frequency. I feel worthy and confident. I then attract others who are also committed to their path and so we can link arms and walk together.  When 2 or more join, the resultant effect is exponential. I carried on working on my path and staying in high frequency, and soon I became one among a hi-vibe tribe who are walking alongside me.

And here we all are, together, on the CoCoHub path.

I feel welcomed, supported, blessed, grateful and at peace. This is who I naturally am and generously gift my vibe to those walking with me. I look forward to a long, prosperous marriage!

 

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Sibylle Stehli

I have experienced chaos to a degree that would break most people. Suicidal depression, health challenges, an abusive marriage and bankruptcy catalysed me to disrupt the built-up chaos of my life. In doing so, I overcame my circumstances and now direct my life from a place of deep compassion for all.
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