Walk your path without Comparisonitis

In response to Allison’s post on vibrational alignment in collaboration:

I had a disease through my own experience of years of feeling inadequate and therefore acutely lacking in many areas. It was called Comparisonitis.

This disease stayed with me until I truly understood that I am unique – not in a special or grandiose way. Just being alive made me unique. So why the heck was I comparing myself to everyone else and feeling like I am the only one that does not have life sorted?

So here I was, a solo entrepreneur trying to muddle my way through so that I could somehow make ends meet before they moved further apart. To no avail. I tried to co-create numerous times with others and ended up alone again. So these points from Allison’s post resonated deeply.

The usual process…

• One or two entrepreneurs plant the seeds. They see the vision, even if it’s still blurry.
• They passionately invite others to join.
• And so begins the honeymoon before the marriage.

The only problem is, we never got to the marriage.

I realised that the only way I can get ahead is to focus on my path. When I am doing this, integrity to myself and the commitments I make increase my frequency. I feel worthy and confident. I then attract others who are also committed to their path and so we can link arms and walk together.  When 2 or more join, the resultant effect is exponential. I carried on working on my path and staying in high frequency, and soon I became one among a hi-vibe tribe who are walking alongside me.

And here we all are, together, on the CoCoHub path.

I feel welcomed, supported, blessed, grateful and at peace. This is who I naturally am and generously gift my vibe to those walking with me. I look forward to a long, prosperous marriage!